豆瓣网友:There was a time when men were kind, when their voices were soft, and their words inviting. There was a time when love was blind, and the world was a song, and the song was exciting! There was a time, then it all want wrong.曾几何时,男人们和颜悦色,他们声音温柔,话语讨人欢喜。曾几何时,爱情无所禁忌,世界是一首歌,歌声动人心弦!又是何时,一切都已不再。,山本大辅,今和纪导演对大西流星说:"原来人会变得温柔,是透彻的懂了。《开始懂了》"一个多岁的女人,已经没有太多的时间和精力去征服一个不再承诺的男人了。男人有才华的长得丑,长得帅的不挣钱,挣钱多的不顾家,顾家的没出息,有出息的不浪漫,浪漫的又靠不住,靠得住的又窝囊。女人改造男人,男人改造女人,说到底不过是男女之间的一种磨合,并不存在真正意义上的谁改造谁的问题。如果大家都想改造对方,那就成了一场毫无结果而又永不止息的战争,想一想,爱本身就是改造,因为没有爱的改造只是徒劳,有了爱,改造就变得多此一举。